The Forgetful Heart
/Personally, my empathy is a vessel that has allowed me to love super hard and super selflessly. My empathy runs deep through my veins— it’s a blessing and a curse…
Read MorePersonally, my empathy is a vessel that has allowed me to love super hard and super selflessly. My empathy runs deep through my veins— it’s a blessing and a curse…
Read MoreHi Everyone, It is 2024. It has been a while.
The world has gone through a pandemic, I have lost a sister, I have estranged family members who I never ever thought would be estranged, got a new nephew (x2), I have moved moved into my very own apartment in NYC, met some flipping amazing friends and people and have and some incredible opportunities, first relationship, first heartbreak, first exposure to mental abuse, started some creative projects (stay tuned), pursuing my academic dreams (God-Willing), plus more.
I know, I know… you want to hear it all now—JK you likely don’t even know who I am lol— but we will have to get into all that later! For now, in the words of Eminem.. allow me to re-introduce myself..with the VOGUE 73 Questions. I answered these questions a long time ago when I first started this blog, and I found it to be extremely fun and reflective… ok, I must say, as I am typing this out, I am wondering why I have decided to revamp this blog online instead of a visual social media channel. I don’t know… I think I just simply miss writing. We are so inundated with visuals these days; I miss reading and practicing my writing. Also, with the use of AI and chat GPT software, I just want to maintain my own voice. Wow, that got a bit deep. Who is crying? Certainly not me.
Moving forward, last time I started by opening the door to my virtual and luxurious “humble mansion,”but given I pay a good pretty penny for a New York City Shoebo… I mean apartment, we are going to stay genuine today. so..ehhemm..
I still hold this truth to be self-evident that one day I shall be famous enough for Vogue to follow me around and ask me these questions in real life. HeHe.. However, until that dream becomes a reality, this will suffice.
Ok..Lights, Camera, Action!
What causes are important to you? Preventative Healthcare, Protection of the Creative Rights of Talent
Best compliment you’ve ever received? Still, That my walk is powerful and confident. My best friend gave me this compliment when she was recounting the first day we met in college.
Least favorite thing? I still hate roller coasters, and of course all the things I did before, but this time I have also added broke men. Oh, and people who are just always angry or easily angered because, why?
When are you the most creative? After a work out. Can’t belivee I am saying this, but after running on a treadmill, specifically.
When are you the most inspired? Traveling. I am so due for a trip!
Last piece of content you consumed that made you cry? A Tik Tok where this man’s girlfriend surprised him with a cake despite him not celebrating his birthday since he was 13. He cried, then I cried, and it was a whole thing.
Sweet or savory? Savory, although I have developed an incredible sweet tooth. It is still not my favorite taste, though.
Who should people be following right now? Julian De Medeiros, a philosophy buff and assistant lecturer at the University of Kent. I just love how he applies philosophical theories to contemporary happenings.
Celebrity(s) you admire? Oprah, but also because I RECENTLY MET HER IN REAL LIFE. Let me know if you want a story time.
Song you can listen to on repeat? Kaytranada - Intimidated
What makes you smile the most? Oscar Winning Tears - Raye
Last country you visited? Mexico
If you could go to any concert past or present, what would it be? Love concerts, but hate attending them. I prefer music festivals. I’d want to relive BEYCHELLA.
Your affirmation Everyday? I think still this quote: "Do you know who you are? Most importantly do you know Whose you are? You are the child of the most high. Get it together and do what you got to do to make your dreams come true. "
Can you describe yourself in a hashtag? #cloudsurfer
On a scale of 1-10, how excited are you about life right now? ebbs & flows
You are stuck on a deserted island and you only have one book, what are you reading? The Bible, because at that point only GOD can save me 'Halleluuu'
If your life was a musical, what would the marquee say? "Chadia" ( my name means “singer” anyway)
What’s one thing people don’t know about you? I've played 13 sports,total, at different points in my life
Who is your favorite Disney character? The Little Mermaid, Ariel, without a doubt.
If you could star in any movie what would it be? Not sure, not really in my acting bag, right now. Maybe in a celebrity biopic.
What’s your favorite time of day? Sunset - Golden hour, specifically between the hours of 4pm and 7pm.
If you could travel the world with anyone who would it be? My Mother
Dream country to visit? Still Switzerland during Christmas time.
What’s the most sentimental gift received? I appreciate thoughtful gifts... The message board I received for my 22nd Bday
Heels or flats/sneakers? Heels.. hello bunions! IYKYK
Vintage or new? You know, I like vintage, but depends on what it is. I don’t like the idea of buying vintage shoes or basics.
What industry do you see yourself working in? Entertainment Business or Real Estate
Style icon? I don’t have one. I think if you think you look good, then go ahead girl. lol I like 90’s era, though.
What are the three things you can’t live without? Family, Best Friends & Music
Favorite pastime? Photography
What 3 people living or dead would you like to make dinner for? Oprah, Beyonce, Tracee Ellis Ross
What’s your biggest fear in life? Not traveling enough
Window or aisle seat? Window
What’s your current T.V. character obsession? Titus Andromedon
Leather or Lace? Leather
Most adventurous thing you’ve done in your life? Told an interviewer I lived in state and literally jumped on a 4 hour bus ride to my interview.. I got the job and moved to New York City two weeks later.
How would you define yourself in three words? Loyal, Compassionate, Empathetic
Favorite piece of clothing that you own? my maroon leather jacket
Must have clothing item everyone should have? pointed leather high leg boots.
Superpower you would want? Invisibility
What’s inspiring you in life right now? New York City.. um is this currently my personality?! lol
Best piece of advice you’ve received? Red nails, always… oh and just do it ;)
What is your pet peeve? Gum chewers, loud mouth breathers, and liars
What is more important to you in a relationship? Loyalty
What is your favorite spirit human ? Shera Seven
What is something you notice about someone when you first meet them? Literally, their energy.
What is your biggest regret? The time spent sweating the small stuff
Best way to rest/decompress? walking all over the citayyyy
Favorite place to view art? THE MET
What is heavily played on your music playlist right now? Afrobeats
If you could master one instrument, what would it be? piano
What are some of your must have beauty products? Mascara, concealer, brown lip liner, & gloss
How do you react to criticism? I take into consideration
Mantra? No failures, just growth!
How would you describe your style? …whatever looks good on me….
Funniest person in the world right now? man, these tik tok creators are hilarious!
What’s your favorite board game? Cards Against Humanity
What is your guilty pleasure? funny side of Tik Tok, I don’t even know what to tell you.
What did you read most recently? The Tao of Pooh
Diamonds or pearls? Diamonds
How do you start your day? Prayer and Face Wash
What is the best thing in the world right now? Humor
Pilates or yoga? I don’t do either, but I think I’d like pilates more.
Coffee or tea? Tea
What is your favorite holiday? Christmas
Dark chocolate or milk chocolate? Milk Chocolate
If you could raid one woman's closet who would it be? Amy Shehab
Summer or winter? ...Spring!
If you could switch lives with one person for a day who would it be? Oprah
What is your favorite place that makes you feel happy? Malibu
A skill you’re working on mastering? Writing
How would you like to be remembered? A good friend
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Personally, my empathy is a vessel that has allowed me to love super hard and super selflessly. My empathy runs deep through my veins— it’s a blessing and a curse…